Why You Should Never Be Ashamed of Being - Just a Mom

There is something about motherhood that only those that has gone through it understand completely and others are perplexed about. Some dream of luxurious lives to be lived while they work different jobs such as customer acquisition services or even a waiter. Then there are those who dream of being a mom, of a family to be raised and for kids to care for and what is not fair is some misjudge these people as those who are settling for a life as “just a mom.” Being a mom is not settling and sometimes it can end up as a very promising and satisfying occupation. 

You Manage People Well

Being a mom means you have a kid or kids and with that comes the difficult task of managing your kids’ emotions as well as your own. Being a mom never stops it’s not just when your children are still young once they grow up you also should adjust to their needs. As a mom you want your best for your child and that means schools, activities and friends. You learn to draw the line with your child of what’s acceptable and what isn’t and you keep an eye on who they’re with. Learn to let go when you should and learn to hold on tight when you can, you will always look out for the best in them, that right there is good management practices.

You are Very Organized

As a mother, you find yourself in situations where you are completely aware of the schedules of everyone in the house. You find it as a norm to adjust schedules and make sure everyone is aware of their schedules and things they need to bring. Your body works like clockwork and have a set of tasks within the house that you take care of. Without you nothing in the house feels the same, it feels out of sorts, it is out of sorts and definitely everyone else loses tracks of things they have to do.

You Have Many Skills

Mothers wear many hats, they can be nurses, cooks or even councilors. You learn many skills from the different tasks you do for your loved ones. There are days where you have to prepare all three meals in the day and snacks, and it always has to be different so they don’t get tired of it. You are sometimes a nurse taking care of your kids inevitably get scratches, bruises and sicknesses. You will always have the best medicine for them to feel better. You are also a teacher, you assist your kids in the different lessons they learn and also help them understand the life lessons they experience. 

You are Someone’s Whole World

Finally you shouldn’t be ashamed that you are just a mom, because to your family you are not just a mom you are their whole world, no other person can replace you in their hearts. Never be ashamed of being a mother because titles and ranks change but being a mother is for life. No one can take that title away from you and only you can determine the value of that title.

About the author:

Katrina is your average gal living inside the metro who has passion for writing, travel and photography. She admires nature at its finest and always wanted to become one of them. Dreaming to have the Cinderella life one day, humming with the birds, dancing with the clouds.