Mar 22, 2010

Finding Your Soul Mate

Soul mate is sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, and/or compatibility. Soul mates can have various types of relationships, which do not always include romantic love. They can be close friends, co-workers, a teacher, anyone who influences your life one way or another.

This post will only describe ‘soul mate’ in romantic love relationship. If you’re a single woman, you may think that finding your soul mate is very important; or it has already become a goal in your life? Well, you’re not alone, girls, because according to a recent poll, 98% of people think it's important to marry your soul mate.
There's a big difference between a great guy and the guy, right? So, if you’re still looking for the right guy, you should read first the guidance to find soul mate below. Happy reading, girls…

Be the person you would love to love. Instead of waiting for your soulmate to appear, make yourself the person you would like to find. Work on becoming the unique individual you're looking for. Expressing your individuality is the closest you can come to advertising your soulmate potential. Not only will you stand out, but you'll also be doing things that are more likely to bring you closer to your soulmate, who probably has similar interests and goals.
  • Remember that your soul mate might not be what you expect. If there's only one person in the world who can be your soulmate, what are the chances that they'll live in your town, look like the people you grew up with, or even speak the same language? You do need to be receptive to people with different backgrounds. So keep an open mind. Part of the romance of having a soulmate is being pleasantly surprised.
  • Be patient. Life doesn't normally work on the schedule you predicted. Your soulmate might cross your path when you're 8 or 80 years old. Yes, you might look forward to spending the majority of your life with your soulmate—perhaps buying a house, getting married, starting a family—but things do not always go as you plan. Don't rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the soulmate box, which will cause pain for everyone involved.
  • Accept people for who they are, not who you want them to be. Unrealistic expectations can ruin a relationship, and might even chase your soulmate away. Whoever it is that you think might be your soulmate, appreciate their individuality and trust that if this person is your soulmate. That doesn't mean that you can't encourage them to try something new or help them to grow as a person, just don't force things on them that they are not comfortable with.
  • Endure the storms. Meeting your soulmate doesn't guarantee "happily ever after." Things won't get easier when you find that special someone, and in fact, they might get even harder. Ultimately, a soulmate is someone with whom you can grow, and the only way to grow together is to face challenges together. So if you put your heart and soul into a relationship, stick with it through the ups and downs.
  • You need to find yourself before you find your soulmate. Once you're happy with yourself, a soulmate can make you even happier, but no one can fill an emptiness created by not knowing who you are.
  • Don't obsess over finding your soulmate. Just be yourself, keep an open mind and wait.
  • You need to know exactly what you want in potential partner; their personality traits, values, beliefs, outlook on life etc.
  • A soulmate is someone who understands and loves you just the way you are. If they're bent on trying to shape you, they want a slave (just leave it!).
  • Be willing to try new things, new restaurants, new cinemas, new courses, ...etc as there is no telling where you might meet your partner.

  • Before applying the guidance above, you should also consider these things:The idea that a "soulmate" might be an idealized fantasy. It is a very real possibility that many people can qualify as a soulmate, not just one other person in the entire world. It is equally true that you may never find your soulmate; if you want a perfect one.

    Do not expect an incredible person who is kind in every way. It will lead you to disappointment, which can chase your soulmate away. “Expect the best, plan for the worst, and prepare to be surprise”. & google
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