Jan 25, 2010

About Shopaholic

Shopping is often related to women interest. It’s one of enjoyable activities; but when shopping has turned into an addiction; you can’t let it unsolved.

To verify whether you’re a shopaholic or not, read the seen marks of a shopaholic below:

  • There is always shopping activity in your daily schedule.

  • Have a high enthusiasm in shopping. You can spend all day in mall. If there’s a sale advertisement at one mall, you always and must be there since the first day.

  • Your home has already full of expense stuffs that are unused.

  • Seeing other buys something; you are tickled to buy it, too; although in fact the money is to buy other need.

  • Shopping gives you satisfaction that can’t be replaced by other activity.
If you experienced at least two symptoms above, please, you should be aware of this problem…

According to some American psychiatrists who have handled shopaholic cases in celebrities, shopping has become one kind of dangerous enough obsession-compulsive disorder. Most of shopaholics suffer from depression or low self confidence. For them, shopping gives pleasure and comfort, though it’s only temporary.

If you want to heal from the addiction, you should have strong intention to eliminate this behavior. Here are tips to erase your shopping addiction:

  • Change your way of thinking. Emphasize yourself that shopping means buying things that you really need.

  • Change your daily schedule. Decrease the shopping activity from the list.

  • If you must buy needed goods; ask someone to accompany you. She/he will be your ‘shopping police’.

  • Always bring a list of goods needed to buy; and strict to it.

  • Avoid using credit card. Bring money sufficiently.

  • Fill your spare time with more useful activities. You can decide yourself what you will do. It can be blogging, taking courses, reading, painting, being active in social or religious activities, etc.
If you have applied all tips and still hasn’t yet succeeded, you should consult your condition to an expert. You might have more serious psychology problem.

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13 comments:

Dilla January 25, 2010  

the 1st, aha credit card?
concern for the shopaholic, be careful in using credit cards. because of late inroad atm syndicates had come to Indonesia in a much more sophisticated. so reduce the frequency of credit card swipe.

imelda January 25, 2010  

glad im not yet a shopaholic. anyway i only shop if i have extra

eden January 26, 2010  

Thanks Lina for this post. I can say that I am not a shopaholic kind. I shop only for the things we need.

Johnson Manurung January 26, 2010  

Nice Tips bu Lina ...
I'll ask my wife to read this tips
regard

Yen January 26, 2010  

Happy to fall out of this category. Not a shopaholic. But a food tripper hehe.

Lina Marliana January 26, 2010  

Aku bukan shopaholic lho.. Aku cuma punya jadwal belanja bulanan untuk keperluan sehari2 aja. Jalan2 shoping dengan keluarga aja dalam 1 bulan belum tentu ada jadwal..

harto January 27, 2010  

memang kalo kita ikutin hawa nafsu... whuuuuaaahhh.... maunya semua yang ada di beli. kalo saya hanya benar2 butuh barang atau sesuatu saja setelah itu langsung pulang deh. Kelamaan di Mall ga baik juga walaupun hanya untuk refreshing saja.

"tempat yang paling dicintai Allah dipermukaan bumi ini adalah masjid, dan tempat yang paling dibenci Allah adalah pasar" (HR Muslim)

Henny Y.Wijaya January 27, 2010  

yang penting tahu batasan. jangan sampai besar pasak daripada tiang :)

rumah blogger January 27, 2010  

belanja terus yaa..kalo jadi pacarnya ampun deh, hehehe

sabirinnet January 27, 2010  

nice info nich, thanx friend

Mom of Four January 30, 2010  

Have you seen themovie "Confessions of Shopaholic?" it's pretty good and funny. I don't shop a lot, only when we need something, I guess, because I don't have shopping money, hahaha!

gambutku February 01, 2010  

nice post.:D

gambutku February 02, 2010  

hm....in english.:D

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