How to be More Romantic
Are
you a natural romantic or do you have a trouble even dropping into a florist to buy a gift? Whatever level
of romanticism you have, you can always improve, just by following a few simple
steps. The theory is simple, but in practice, it will involve always making an
effort and not just be about buying flowers and chocolates when your partner is
angry with you. Firstly, you need to understand whether you are actually
romantic or not. If you make romantic gestures for no apparent reason other
than love, you are probably a true romantic. Those that need a little bit of help
know what to do but just not always when to do it.
These
are the areas of your romantic life to concentrate on:
●
Consistency
– if you are constant with your romantic gestures, there will never be those
questions of your motivation for being romantic.
● Creativity
– Being creative in your romantic gestures really shows you care.
● Individualism
– no matter what, be yourself when you are being romantic.
●
Understanding
– Sometimes your partner just may not be in the mood for an extreme romantic
gesture and so some empathy is definitely important.
Consistently
Romantic
Do
you only buy your partner flowers
when it is their birthday or when you have done something wrong? This is not
romanticism and is only a kind gesture. Being a romantic means going beyond the
basic niceties of a relationship and really showing your love.
Being consistent does not mean buying the same flowers every week for your partner, but doing something romantic for them regularly. Certainly, you can flood them with big gifts but it is often small, regular gestures that mean the most. So make sure you put some thought into it!
The
Creative Romantic
Being
a romantic that is also creative is the best combination, because you need to
keep coming up with great ideas. If you do not see yourself as creative, don’t
stress out, as you can always search for ideas and inspiration. You will find
that nearly every romantic gesture has been done before, so there is a lot of
information out there for you. Being creative also means being you. Even if you
find some fantastic creative and romantic ideas, be sure to add a personal
twist.
The
Individual Romantic
Being
an individual is just as important as the loving gestures you hope to pull off.
With any romantic action you take, you have to be comfortable. Some people will
be happy with very public displays of affection, such as singing, while others
will be more silently romantic, with poems and flowers. It is better to do what
you are comfortable with, as then you can learn to enjoy being romantic. If you
are trying to do romantic things that make you uncomfortable, you will be less
likely to be romantic again. Stay within your depth when you are trying to woo
someone and you will be just fine.
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Another lovely post Lina, thank you.
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